* Comments and views on some selected quotes from the movie 500 Days of Summer*
Tom: Did you ever do this, you think back on all the times you've had with someone and you just replay it in your head over and over again and you look for those first signs of trouble?
-->yeah i did it several times when i have nothing to do. there were several signs of trouble which i just completely ignore,and looking back now, i wish that i really did listen to those signs and listen more to my instincts. letting my emotions take over me was the biggest regret i made.my friend is right, love isn't really just enough.
Narrator: If Tom had learned anything... it was that you can't ascribe great cosmic significance to a simple earthly event. Coincidence. That's all anything ever is. Nothing more than coincidence.
-->pre-destination,fate and destiny are rubbish....COINCIDENCE....everything is just entirely coincidence. the things that happened to a person are the products of his/her own choices.
Rachel Hansen: Look, I know you think she was the one, but I don't. Now, I think you're just remembering the good stuff. Next time you look back, I really think you should look again.
--> hmmm looking back again, trying to flashback memories.....review...rewind.... i only dwell on all the good things in that relationship and i just ignore the bad side of it,i failed to see the whole picture, he is not indeed the ONE, he never was and he never will be, what a relief!...and i'm happy.....sssssssssooooooo happy!...
Jan 14, 2010
Jan 8, 2010
Games
Perfect...
" I AM PERFECT JUST THE WAY I AM"
I'd like to borrow that one-liner from my colleague,i overheard him while he uttered those words during one of his lessons. I'll make it as my new mantra whenever bouts of insecurities will eat me up again. I sometimes feel that i am not good enough,that i'm ugly-fat-and miserable,and that i'm not good enough for any guy out there(shiiiiittttt drama!) but hey who cares?, i am definitely perfect just the way i am. I may not be blessed with any eye catching attributes but i am smart,witty and have an amazing personality(my friends can attest to that). I am perfect in my own special way that i don't need to have any alterations on the way i look and the way i behave just to get other person's approval. If a person will like me or love me,he/she must need to embrace my imperfections as well. :)
I'd like to borrow that one-liner from my colleague,i overheard him while he uttered those words during one of his lessons. I'll make it as my new mantra whenever bouts of insecurities will eat me up again. I sometimes feel that i am not good enough,that i'm ugly-fat-and miserable,and that i'm not good enough for any guy out there(shiiiiittttt drama!) but hey who cares?, i am definitely perfect just the way i am. I may not be blessed with any eye catching attributes but i am smart,witty and have an amazing personality(my friends can attest to that). I am perfect in my own special way that i don't need to have any alterations on the way i look and the way i behave just to get other person's approval. If a person will like me or love me,he/she must need to embrace my imperfections as well. :)
I Love This.......
Need You Now by Lady Antebellum
Picture perfect memories,
Scattered all around the floor.
Reaching for the phone cause, I can’t fight it any more.
And I wonder if I ever cross your mind.
For me it happens all the time.
It’s a quarter after one, I’m all alone and I need you now.
Said I wouldn’t call but I lost all control and I need you now.
And I don’t know how I can do without, I just need you now.
Another shot of whiskey, can’t stop looking at the door.
Wishing you’d come sweeping in the way you did before.
And I wonder if I ever cross your mind.
For me it happens all the time.
It’s a quarter after one, I’m a little drunk,
And I need you now.
Said I wouldn’t call but I lost all control and I need you now.
And I don’t know how I can do without, I just need you now.
Yes I’d rather hurt than feel nothing at all.
It’s a quarter after one, I’m all alone and I need you now.
And I said I wouldn’t call but I’m a little drunk and I need you now.
And I don’t know how I can do without, I just need you now.
I just need you now.
Oh baby I need you now.
Picture perfect memories,
Scattered all around the floor.
Reaching for the phone cause, I can’t fight it any more.
And I wonder if I ever cross your mind.
For me it happens all the time.
It’s a quarter after one, I’m all alone and I need you now.
Said I wouldn’t call but I lost all control and I need you now.
And I don’t know how I can do without, I just need you now.
Another shot of whiskey, can’t stop looking at the door.
Wishing you’d come sweeping in the way you did before.
And I wonder if I ever cross your mind.
For me it happens all the time.
It’s a quarter after one, I’m a little drunk,
And I need you now.
Said I wouldn’t call but I lost all control and I need you now.
And I don’t know how I can do without, I just need you now.
Yes I’d rather hurt than feel nothing at all.
It’s a quarter after one, I’m all alone and I need you now.
And I said I wouldn’t call but I’m a little drunk and I need you now.
And I don’t know how I can do without, I just need you now.
I just need you now.
Oh baby I need you now.
Jan 5, 2010
An Ice Queen's Sentiments
To love is to risk not being loved in return.
To expose feelings is to risk exposing your true self. ---- Leo Buscaglia
I came to ask myself if the risk i once took was all worth it,yeah it was,i mean with all the things i learned from that situation, it was indeed worth taking the risk The effects it brought on me though changed me totally,gone was the romantic in me, i became wiser but cold and cynical. I see relationships now as mere "touch and go", "crash and burn", "hi and goodbye", "hit and run". They all ran away taking away my beliefs, leaving me numb and cold. I'll never be the same again i guess. It will take years before i'll find the courage to take risk and break this ice in me.......
To expose feelings is to risk exposing your true self. ---- Leo Buscaglia
I came to ask myself if the risk i once took was all worth it,yeah it was,i mean with all the things i learned from that situation, it was indeed worth taking the risk The effects it brought on me though changed me totally,gone was the romantic in me, i became wiser but cold and cynical. I see relationships now as mere "touch and go", "crash and burn", "hi and goodbye", "hit and run". They all ran away taking away my beliefs, leaving me numb and cold. I'll never be the same again i guess. It will take years before i'll find the courage to take risk and break this ice in me.......
Jan 2, 2010
Thoughts Over GinVodka
Happy New Year! new year for me would mean my fresh start, a new beginning,a new life, and a new perspective. Past is past and i live for the present,there's no use looking back on things that were over,learrnings would always remain in me though. This year's theme would be "loving me",a bit selfish as i may say, it'll be all about me,my dreams,my longings,and the things i always wanted. Also included in the scope of "me" are my family and friends, (other people? i don't give a damn really,including those whom i already discarded,i already categorized them as people and things in the past.) Loving me would entail prohibiting myself from casual run-ins with this thing i labeled as hit-and run, loving worthless blokes and indulging on self-harming habits. To respect,love and know my true value as a person and as a woman would be my number one priority. That's all folks,happy new year!
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